Behind every real man is his past, not his woman

"Behind every real man is his past, not his woman.
A real man keeps his queen by his side, not behind him."
~realmenmovement 

Not every man has his 'alone' past behind him.
Some men are so careful not to spoil their past .
They have focused, secluded and purpose driven lives....

They know where they are going, they have direction,
how to achieve it, and almost how to get there!!!

It is very important for them
to choose their thoughts carefully,
whatever they surely dream is bound to become manifest.
They might display what looks like insensitivity....
That is only because they are focused on the future.....

"It is not a lack of love but a lack of friendship 
that makes unhappy marriages"
-Friedrich Nietzsche

And when they meet their queen......
The woman molded for them, their 'help-meet'
What happens???
Will they give up their so perfect or non perfect past life
And allow the woman of their dreams lead them also?
Most men have it bad here,
They want to rule so bad and keep things in a particular way
That they don't  let their woman  in their lives properly

"A king has no intention of trying to change, control or "shut up" a Queen.
A mentally mature man wants his woman just as strong 
and tactfully outspoken as him....
with her own mind, because he knows his woman's strength 
is a reflection of his own.
Iron Sharpens Iron...
a weak man on the other hand,
only approaches weak minded females,
so he can be the Alfa by default."

Gradually and slowly,
the woman starts losing her little say,
that is meant to let her grow and fully manifest in his life,
as originally intended by God.
She loses value in her thoughts and position,
in being the proverbs 31 woman who leads the household,
You know she is hurt when she chooses to remain silent,
80% of women choose to express pains by being quiet.

"Husbands, in the same way be considerate 
as you live with your wives, 
and treat them with respect as the weaker partner
 and as helps 
with you of the gracious gift of life"
-1 Peter 3:7


When there is a solid basis of friendship
The king realises he is not much without his queen by his side
She becomes his best friend and not 'behind' him
They have to speak and focus on each other
Husbands love your wives, 
Wives submit and respect your husband

With no particular disposition of who is
 more superior than the other,
Both the king and queen rule as joint heirs in God's grace.
The woman in her inestimable role leading the household by example,
With the man leading his family to the good life and ultimately to God.
A king with his queen can then make wonderful decisions.
Together they would build an empire!


credit @realmenmovement


A power couple are a King and Queen that make shit happen,
catalysts, go-to-people.
Both are High achievers, Go-Getters & Hustlers.
Not only are they rare.....
But Unstoppable!!
-Skyline Couture
We are God' Perfect Creation
Beautiful of all Worlds...
DamieQuotes

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