Why Women Take Longer to Fall in Love


Women are a bit more complicated 
The female cortex (part of the brain) is highly developed 
It scrutinizes all available evidence -social, emotional & physically
Is he a player? Is he rouge? Is he commited and kind?

Women are also more to marry for other reasons than love
Although more financially stable women marry just based on love
Women look for qualities, traits, commitment,
Is it the way he looks at me? Do I bring out the best in him?
When a woman loves a man, she gives it her everything!

They sense his Intelligence, his swagg, his emotion, his ambition,
His ability to make her laugh, the way he compliments her,
 They like to tell when a real man knows what he want
How he reacts to challenging rare situations! Not on a daily basis
Women follow their instincts! 

Sometimes they secretly have a crush on the guy
Even if they don't show it, they are strongly attracted
They want him to chase her, to be persistent, to be committed
Its also amusing how women fall for men they never considered dating
"I soon found myself falling for him"
"I was not attracted to him at first, he is not bad looking you know"
"He is so sweet and caring"

For some, they plan and wait on God
They pray and fast for their God-ordained partners
Is he a believer? Is he committed to God? Are his ways straight?
They consult friends, spiritual fathers, parents, family for advice and signs
Just to be utterly convinced they are in the right 'ship'
However be it Friendship, Relationship, Patnership or Courtship

But at the end of the day
What is inside, What is outside
Does not really matter
What matters is knowing what you really want!

We are God; Perfect Creation
Beautiful of  all Worlds
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