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A marriage prayer - 7 Ways to Respect Your Husband

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Lord, I pray that we will not only seek You, but seek to serve You, in the way that we live and the way that we love. And let the wife see that she respects her husband. That's what Paul wrote in the second half of Ephesians 5:33. Respect is something that I believe has diminished throughout the years. So many marriages begin well and end poorly because men and women are not properly trained in how to treat one another. God has specific roles for the husband and the wife and when we stay within those roles we have happy marriages and good family lives. Respect is something that should be mutual between all members of the family, but for this article I being also a wife want to give some helpful hints for wives on how to respect their husband. Respect His Leadership "It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him." God gave you your husband as the leader in your home. This means that he is not only the spiritual leader:...

Treat HER Like a Queen...

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There are some tough, resilient, high resistant women out there They build walls around them to shield them from being broken You never really know what 'she' has been through She could have had nobody but herself to blame when things go wrong When a strong woman  cries, she has been strong for too long She releases anger, pain, courage and somewhat faith that she had held on That everything somehow would be just okay in the end She sometimes may feel she is winning but really she's not..... Professionally, a woman could decide to take the 'Boss' shoes She could be a firefighter, soldier, police, public figure, top executive and so many others She portrays strength, equality, courage and hope A woman should be treated as a lady no matter her profession! When a woman is 'mad' she believed in you and you let her down When she is asking questions, she wants to get clarity on the matter When she is 'tripping' for...

Thou Shall not Judge

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Its so easy to judge others To quickly point out their mistakes Without looking at our inevitable faults The same thing you resent in others  Is the same thing you resent in yourself One of a kind you think you are But to be kind to others is all you should be  "Don't Judge. You don't know what storm I've asked her to walk through" - God If God brings you to your mistakes He will bring you through it He will never leave or forsake you For you to be thoroughly cleansed Confess your sins to one another So that your heavenly father would forgive you Let your faith be bigger than your fears You will pass through the fire But it would not burn you When you pass through the waters He will be with you When all hell breaks loose He will guide you all through  We are God's Perfect Creation Beautiful of all Worlds... DamieQ

China's Amazing Bridges

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So refreshingly beautiful!!!! We are God' Perfect Creation Beautiful of all Worlds DamieQuotes

A Letter to my Younger self - 23 Things I have learned in 23 Years.

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Many of you may not know, but I used to have a diary as a young teenager, I started having one when I was 13 years and now that I am 23 years, I feel I need to go down memory lane and recall some experiences that I have gained wisdom from over the last decade transitioning into my adult life. These are 23 things I have learned, I will always remember and I think it's worth sharing so here goes....... 1) Your value does not reduce by somebody's inability to see your worth. When I was younger, some people thought I was not good enough, I was not sharp enough, I was too dark, I was too quiet, they would think all sorts. All those things would drown me as a young girl, sometimes even my teachers let me down, would not believe in me. With time I always persisted to see the best in myself, and today those same people now call me beautiful, intelligent and smart. Always increase in your value and believe with patience, your value would be so great, you will be so good that they ...

20 Questions for Date Night

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Whether you are married, engaged or just dating, its important to ask your date questions  other than how are you? How was your day? or just end up having a dead conversation. It's because we are asking the wrong questions . Try switching up the questions to connect on a deeper level and gain an opportunity to know our partners better by their responses to these question. Remember if you don't want lame answers, you can't ask lame questions. Here are better questions to ask your date besides, "How was your day?". 1. Tell me about a book (or something you watched) that changed your life. 2. What is one of the best gifts you received as a child? Why was it so special? 3. What is a tradition you wish your family had, but never did? 4. What was the best vacation you/your family ever had? 5. Tell me about somewhere you've been that you would like to go back to. 6. What would you like to do more of in life, but don't? Why not? ...

The War Within - Pursue Purity...

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"Make a pre-determined decision to stay pure, and that you won't date anyone who has not made the same commitment.   Abstain from every form of evil!"   1 Thessalonians 5:21-22 " We often feel like there is a war going on within us. One part of us (the inner person) wants to do what we know to be right, and another part (the outer person) wants to do what is wrong. The wrong thing can feel right, while the right thing feels wrong. Remember that we cannot judge the moral value of any action by how we feel. Our feelings are unreliable and cannot be trusted to convey truth. A Christian woman may become emotionally attached to a man other than her husband; she may feel that she could never be happy without him, yet deep inside she knows that leaving her family for the  other man would be the wrong thing to do. She doesn't want to hurt anyone. She doesn't want to disappoint family and friends, but her feelings and emotions and is in the midst of a t...